M2M Scavenger Hunt

So, Lisa at The Preacher's Wife is hosting a scavenger hunt for all of us others who are "Married to the Ministry. This is the last day to play along. Hope I get my name in on time!!!!
Here are the questions and answers =)

1. Name ---- My real first name is Melinda. But everyone calls me Mindy.

2. State and Country of Residence -- I live in North Carolina these days. But Georgia will always be my home....(don't tell my hubby ;) ). Both of those are in the good ole USA.

3. Husband's Ministry Title-- ummm....slave. NO, sorry. Senior Pastor

4. Length of Time in Current Ministry Location -- We've been in this little mountain town for 1 year and almost 5 months now.

5. Children? Gender and ages? I have three very dramatic girls ages 8,6, and almost 5. I also have 1 very much all boy -- he's 14 months old.

6. Number of unique homes I've lived in during my marriage? They've ALL been unique -- they are parsonages of course......we've lived in 3.

7. Cook Sunday lunch or eat out? Well - I prefer to eat out but a lot of times I can't convince hubby that it's the thing to do so we eat sandwiches.....I never cook Sunday lunch.

8. Typically on time for Sunday School or not? Well - since I attend the 9 am service, then yes - I'm on time for Sunday School. Whether or not I'm on time for the 9 AM worship service remains to be seen.

9.Favorite TV Show. Hmmmm. This one is hard for me. I love NCIS and hubs and I like to watch The Big Bang Theory.

10. Something I watch/like/do that I would never tell church people? Well. Let's see.....every once in a while I get a hankering to watch Days of Our Lives just to see who is still on there and what is happening in good ole Salem.

11. Most annoying church related pet peeve. People who expect things from hubs and I that they don't do in return. Meaning.....that PW never calls me and asks me to go to the movies.....and yet -- they've never asked me either. Also -- people who don't like us just because we aren't someone else and yet they've not tried to get to know us. this might be a bit of a sore spot for me so we will move on now....

12.One thing I need to throw away but can't bring myself to do it. LEFTOVERS! I hate pouring out leftovers from the fridge.....i make hubby do it.

13. The one food I cannot live without....I don't know. I Like all food!!!! I love Reece's PB Cups and Peanut M&M's but they don't come into my house much -- lest I be the size of a house.

14. Parsonage or I have my own home.....parsonage.....but long to one day have my own home.

15. Freak when the doorbell rings or always ready for visitors? Are you kidding me? FREAK!!!! And by freak I mean I might not answer the door at all!!!!!

There it is. Feeling a little cheeky today ladies. Can't wait to read the rest of the posts!

in HIM --

Griped by Fear

I'm having a bad day. Honestly, I'm having a bad week. And I'm feeling REALLY guilty about it all.

A bad week how? Well - physically, mentally and spiritually! All of me!!!!

Physically, I've been having heart rhythm issues lately. It's been too fast at times and too slow at times too. I've been dizzy a lot, had lots of heart palpitations, chest pain, shakiness and many other symptoms that I don't understand. So, I've been wearing a heart monitor for a month and I go see the electrophysiologist on Friday to see what is going on.

And then there's this....***.WARNING -- if you don't want to hear about "womanly issues" then skip on down to the next paragraph.***..Since my menstrual cycle has come back after B was born, it has been different. It is has been VERY heavy for the first two days, and then would stop completely for a day and then come back for a few days getting lighter each day. THEN last month it came and was VERY heavy for two days and then stopped altogether. I really didn't think much of it -- maybe just that I got lucky for once....And then -- on day 18 --- I started bleeding again. That was last Friday. I spotted the first day and then it got very heavy for the next couple of days and then lightened up for a day. Yesterday there was NOTHING and today? I'm spotting again--- pretty heavy spotting too. I'm having lots of cramping, too. I have NEVER had issues like this with my menstrual cycle. I see my Gynecologist tomorrow.

All of this plays right in to the battles I am facing mentally and spiritually. I'm not going to lie. Ya'll. I am scared !!! I've told ya'll before about my struggles with fear. All of these physical problems are making my anxiety and fear go through the roof. And just to be completely honest -- I'm so scared that I am going to die and not get to see my kids grow up.

I am desperately trying to use my "Truth Cards" and fill my mind with scriptures reminding me that God doesn't want me to live in fear and that He is good and that HE is in charge. But right now, I'm losing that battle.

I'm terrified!

And quite frankly, I feel really guilty about all of this. I know that there are people who are living with things that are a lot worse than what I'm dealing with and they aren't complaining. I feel guilty that I was so griped by this fear that I didn't go to sleep until about 2AM this morning for fear that going to sleep would slow my heart rate too much. I feel HUGE guilt over the lack of faith that is making itself obvious in my life.

Why am I being so open and honest for all of you to read about the ugliness that is in me? Well for a few reasons I guess. I know that secrets are where Satan thrives and so I need to be honest about this stronghold. Second, I guess I am writing it down because it is somewhat cathartic to write it down. Third, I am begging for your prayers tomorrow and Friday as I see these doctors. I desperately want to ask that ya'll will just pray for complete healing, but I'm not sure I have the faith.

I'm also so uneasy about being so brutally honest and vulnerable about where I am right now. I know that there are those who would read this and see me as weak and basically think I'm just losing it. Frankly, I am in agreement with those two things.

I don't know what to do. I keep crying out to God and saying I NEED YOU!!!!! I long to feel his presence. At the same time I know it isn't about feeling that is about choosing to believe! '

Today -- I'm scared. I'm empty. I don't know what to do......

can you please say a prayer for me?

I feel guilty even asking.

Hokie Heaven

I mentioned on Friday that hubs and I were getting away for a couple of days. Well ---- I have a confession to make. I had Friday's post scheduled to appear then because we actually left on Thursday.


We let A and M skip school on Friday (I know! Bad parents we are!) and so we left as soon as they got off the bus on Thursday. We met my in-laws on the way and they took all 4 kids for a couple of nights.So, we drove to "Hokie Heaven" which is my in- laws mountain home near Blacksburg, VA. Hubs and I had that evening and the following morning to ourselves. It was really wonderful. We've not had a night completely alone since before B was born so it was so NICE!

The view from Hokie Heaven....pretty huh?

Hubs and I took a pic. of ourselves with the view!

Our friends arrived sometime after lunch on Friday. Since our friend, Rob, is a graduate of VT, we decided to spend the late afternoon/early evening in Blacksburg. We drove through campus and then went downtown and walked around. Checking out of the maroon and orange! Matter of fact, hubs and I bought B the cutest Hokie shirt in honor of hubs step dad who also attended VT. It is adorable!

We went and ate supper of Cabo Fish Taco (delish) and then had dessert here....

On Saturday we ate a great breakfast and then went to the Draper Valley Overlook and saw this.

And took a few pics!!!

We then took a detour and ended up an hour away, sick to our stomachs from the curvy mountain roads just to have to turn around and go back the way we came. SO much for an adventure.

Saturday afternoon we drove back to meet the inlaws and get the kids. The kids were all so excited to see us which made this Mama so happy!!! We had supper and then headed home.

It was a wonderful weekend! Now we are back to reality!

Hope ya'll have a great Monday. I doubt there is anyone out there who doesn't read McMama's blog but just in case you don't know. Stellan is having his ablation today (RIGHT NOW) instead of tomorrow. Be in prayer for them!!!!

In HIM --

I'm seeing a Theme Here

SO - after I had that whole day this week thinking about the depraved mind, Wednesday came.

And on Wednesday, the Lord showed me and spoke to me about what it is I need to work as far as 'changing my mind'. Let me just tell you about Wednesday.

On the way to my Women's Community Bible Study, I was listening to Greg Laurie and he said "Heaven is not for good people. Heaven is for forgiven people." I know -- you are thinking "duh - we all know that". And yes we do....but let's just continue shall we?

Then at bible study, it was all about Jonah and the Ninehvite's. You know the story. God told Jonah to go to Nineveh. Jonah didn't want to - told God no and ran. God on a boat-- a storm came-- Jonah says throw we overboard and the storm will stop. So, that's what happened and he gets swallowed by a big fish- sits in the belly for 3 days and then cries out to God. God has the fish spit him up -- and then Jonah goes to Nineveh and does what he was told to do but then he's mad at God because he didn't like the Ninehvites and he didn't think God should give them a second chance. So that was the big question. "Who do you need to give a second chance?"

Also at bible study, I heard the Lord say to me "You've just been playing at breaking free. Now you need to get serious about it."

And lastly, I came home this afternoon and did my Breaking Free study for today which had me practicing Beth's process of changing the thoughts in my mind to His Truth. And guess what the topic was that she had us practice with. You guessed it : "FORGIVENESS!!!"


SO! Looks like the Lord has in mind what he wants me to work on. See, I know WHO he wants me to forgive and I know that I don't really want to do it. I'm just being real here. These people. They've really hurt me and my family and in my own humanness I don't really want to forgive them. BUT GOD -- he has other idea's. SO, I will choose his way because it is the right way.
I am on a road to forgiveness. It may take a LONG time. But the Lord will be with me and I will keep trudging on til I am free!!!!

Ya'll have a fabulous weekend. Hubs and I are getting together with another couple who are also clergy. We are going out of town for a couple of nights. The kids are going to stay with my inlaws. SO, say a prayer for our safe travel and for my kids to be good....and for B to sleep so his Nana can get some sleep too!

Talk to ya'll next week!
in HIM -

A Depraved Mind

I think I've mentioned a time or five that I'm doing Beth Moore's Breaking Free Study at church right now. Now, I've led this study about 5 different times and each time I still have things to break free from.
A small aside here: Got a flyer in the mail that she just updated this study! I'm so bummed that we are almost done with it. I wish we were just starting so we could do the new and updated version.....dern!

Anyways -- if you have never done this study, I highly recommend it! It is an awesome study!
This week marks week 9 in the study for my group of ladies. It is all about the "Battlefield of the Mind".....based on taking our thoughts captive and making them like Christ's (2 Corinthians 10:3-5) and also Isaiah 26:3 "He shall keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast. because he trusts in you."

Everything was going along great in my lesson that day until I ran across this nugget.

Romans 8: 28-32
"Furthermore, since they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, he gave them over to a depraved mind, to do what ought not be done. They have been filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed, and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant, and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil' they disobey their parents; they are senseless, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Although they know God's righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they do not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them."

Whoa! Those are some strong words. Like I said -- I've done this study 5 times and for some reason these words are striking me hard tonight.

Then there were verses of God giving his people over to their depraved minds for a time and even permanently. Check out 1 Corinthians 5:5 and 1 Timothy 1:20.

Ya'll. This has rocked my world this week Let me just tell you that I DO NOT want to be given over to my depraved mind! I have a feeling that you don't either. As I've worked though the rest of this week of study, I'm becoming more aware of of the thoughts in my head that don't line up with God's thoughts. I am becoming more aware that there are things in my life that I need to change...people I need to forgive, fear to rid of, the need to love people as God loves them, as well as some unbelief.
These are the kinds of thoughts that can be controlling for me and it's time for me to work though them and get RID of the wrong thinking and replace it with God's thinking.

I want my thoughts to be Godly. To have the Mind of Christ about everything in life. There is a LOT of work to do but I'm up for it! Because I don't have to be handed over to a depraved mind!

I'm sorry if this post seems random, just sharing my thoughts here tonight. Ya'll have a great Thursday! I'm working on changing my mind today.....

In HIM -

The Blue Ridge Parkway

I am lucky enough blessed enough! to live near the Blue Ridge Parkway. This past Sunday after church hubs and I decided to take some family time and go for lunch and then a drive up on the parkway. The kids didn't think that sounded like a lot of fun -- they wanted to go to a park. Especially M. But we promised her she would have a good time and off we went. We ate lunch at our favorite Mexican Restaurant because it is fast and cheap. And by cheap - I mean my family of 6 can eat there for about $25 (including the tip!) I know, right? Can't beat it! Then we headed up the parkway. Most of the leaves had already fallen so it wasn't as beautiful as I had hoped on the way up. I did enjoy looking at the big, beautiful houses that I could see since the leaves had already fallen off the trees. Silver lining at it best.

Then we got to an overlook. And decided we'd hike up for a better look.

.2 miles feels like a long way when it is straight up.

M. "Take my picture climbing this rock.!"

Going straight down was almost as hard as going up.

God's handiwork!

We got to the bottom to find some church folks were there, too

The kids had a great time playing

TAG!

And B had a good time finding his bellybutton.

And then they played Hide and Go Seek.

SO cute!

And as usual, B made friends with a dog we met there.

Headed back to the car!

I loved how the fog was setting in!

Beautiful!!!!

It was a wonderful family afternoon. Smile.

in HIM -

A Winner!

Ya'll!!!! I'm completely a flake sometimes!
I totally forgot to choose and post a winner for the Swiss Courier book yesterday. I got busy doing laundry, putting away the Halloween decor, and switching out my fall clothes and forgot all about it.
I'm so sorry about that !

So --- without further ado --

the winner is:

Kristin from These Little Girls of Mine

Go by and congratulate her yourselves.

Congrats Kristin! Hope you enjoy the book!!!!





In HIM ---